"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Where the hell do I even find girls?

Yapper

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I'm underage (not high school aged) so clubs and bars are out of the question. I'm hundreds of miles away from home, work full time, don't go to school. Heck forget chicks, I don't even know where to go to find people who are my age to hang out with. What the **** do I do?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Why do you want to hang out with people your age? Nevermind. Try finding people on MySpace in your vicinity and ask them.
 

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I could try that I guess. I'm nervous about the whole meeting people online thing however.

Well since I'm under 21 hanging out with older people is usually a problem... at least all the ones I know. They like to go out drinking, and not a whole lot else.
 

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Make friends and meet girls through them.

You want to hang out with some girls then do something and ask girls (you may even only hardly know) to come along, girls usually will come along a lot more then guys because they are more social and it's what they do.
 

Flabbergasped?

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If you're underaged but not high school aged, you're prepubescent, so I don't see why girls is even an issue yet. And how do you have a job at 13?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Flabbergasped?

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Lol sry, underaged has always meant <18, I've been ignoring the drinking age all my life, so I don't think about it.

It's tough though at that age. Most clubs are 18 and up, 21 to drink. Get buzzed at your place, then go pick up chicks there.
 

izza

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Try looking at the search bar, that button up there that will lead you to thousand upon thousands of threads with this very topic...

Why lose out on the wisdom of a generation?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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it depends on the guy too....

for certain guys, girls come out of the woodwork with uncanny ease.

for other guys, it's like pulling teeth.

for me, it's like pulling teeth.

delta
 

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Fallen33 said:
Take dancing classes?
Swing dance
Tango
Fox trot
and some of the other music types with dance partners.

Once you are good enough, you can teach women on dates :p. I have experimented with this and it is working great for me because all I have to do is mention it and women all of a sudden want to learn. I just say, "Would you like me to teach you?"

I have a sh!t load of fun with it and I get a lot of kino done on them.

P.S. I used to love slow dancing because it was all that I could do well plus you got good amount of kino, but now I know this and suddenly I absolutely hate slow dancing. It is truely boring.

comic_relief
 
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