I'm underage (not high school aged) so clubs and bars are out of the question. I'm hundreds of miles away from home, work full time, don't go to school. Heck forget chicks, I don't even know where to go to find people who are my age to hang out with. What the **** do I do?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Where the hell do I even find girls?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I could try that I guess. I'm nervous about the whole meeting people online thing however.
Well since I'm under 21 hanging out with older people is usually a problem... at least all the ones I know. They like to go out drinking, and not a whole lot else.
Well since I'm under 21 hanging out with older people is usually a problem... at least all the ones I know. They like to go out drinking, and not a whole lot else.
Make friends and meet girls through them.
You want to hang out with some girls then do something and ask girls (you may even only hardly know) to come along, girls usually will come along a lot more then guys because they are more social and it's what they do.
You want to hang out with some girls then do something and ask girls (you may even only hardly know) to come along, girls usually will come along a lot more then guys because they are more social and it's what they do.
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If you're underaged but not high school aged, you're prepubescent, so I don't see why girls is even an issue yet. And how do you have a job at 13?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Lol sry, underaged has always meant <18, I've been ignoring the drinking age all my life, so I don't think about it.
It's tough though at that age. Most clubs are 18 and up, 21 to drink. Get buzzed at your place, then go pick up chicks there.
It's tough though at that age. Most clubs are 18 and up, 21 to drink. Get buzzed at your place, then go pick up chicks there.
penkitten
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pool hall?
izza
Master Don Juan
Try looking at the search bar, that button up there that will lead you to thousand upon thousands of threads with this very topic...
Why lose out on the wisdom of a generation?
Why lose out on the wisdom of a generation?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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it depends on the guy too....
for certain guys, girls come out of the woodwork with uncanny ease.
for other guys, it's like pulling teeth.
for me, it's like pulling teeth.
delta
for certain guys, girls come out of the woodwork with uncanny ease.
for other guys, it's like pulling teeth.
for me, it's like pulling teeth.
delta
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Swing danceFallen33 said:
Tango
Fox trot
and some of the other music types with dance partners.
Once you are good enough, you can teach women on dates
. I have experimented with this and it is working great for me because all I have to do is mention it and women all of a sudden want to learn. I just say, "Would you like me to teach you?"I have a sh!t load of fun with it and I get a lot of kino done on them.
P.S. I used to love slow dancing because it was all that I could do well plus you got good amount of kino, but now I know this and suddenly I absolutely hate slow dancing. It is truely boring.
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