Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
If someone was to say this to me instead of me reading it, I would have definitely laughed.Atom Smasher said:They had to dump it. The pages were all stuck together.
I also am wondering why....Nobody can even own up to why it was deleted. I wonder why? Maybe because they are addicted to masturbation and want everyone to believe its a good thing....I've stopped and I love getting random boners....feel like a man.blehck said:So, it has been deleted? Ok
But why? The admins and staff think its too embarassing for this forum to have this kind of topic?
It had so many good testimonials, it`s a shame that it all got lost![]()
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
lmao all the more incentive to stop!Energy25 said:I've stopped and I love getting random boners....feel like a man.
First, hahahahaaAtom Smasher said:They had to dump it. The pages were all stuck together.
lmao its a conspiracy , i also read that thread , i was wanting to read it to kinda give me a boost , to not whack , and the random boners give you like a rush of man adrenaline to approach girls , especially if your well indowed in tight jeans lol jk ( i don't wear tight jeans)Chickfight said:First, hahahahaa
Secondly, I have a theory one of the moderators is a religious nut. A while back I made a thread about getting a Christian girl which got deleted... and now the epic masturbation thread? Something is going on.
Yeah I also found it very helpful to read that thread when trying to stop. It's a shame it got deleted for no reason. Whoever did it, F!UCK YOU.cablecow15 said:lmao its a conspiracy , i also read that thread , i was wanting to read it to kinda give me a boost , to not whack , and the random boners give you like a rush of man adrenaline to approach girls , especially if your well indowed in tight jeans lol jk ( i don't wear tight jeans)
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Benefits of not masturbating:SoSuaveDude said:Gee. I'm really trying to stop and unfortunately need constant motivation. Can anyone provide a testimony of experienced benefits after discontinuing their past MB habits. And I also wish that the pages weren't superglued with ancient serum lol.. :woo:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
-Less hammerhead sharks around you.Energy25 said:Benefits of not masturbating:
-Increased confidence
-Increased happiness (especially if you really DO want to stop masturbating)
-More interest from girls (and/or you notice this interest more easily)
-less stress
-healthier
The list goes on and on...
well think of it this way , if your gonna go home and do it yourself , you wont feel as big of a need to go out and get it from a girl , but everyone's entitled their own opinionMantis Toboggan said:-Less hammerhead sharks around you.
-Increased Bestosterone (it's like testosterone, but better).
-Less intergalactic space wars
-Supermodels only date dudes who don't MB
I figured since we're just pulling facts out of our ass, we might as well go balls to the wall.
You guys are f**kin weirdos. Masturbation, in normal quantities, will not make you better or worse at life.
Yeah cause personal experience is "pulling facts out of your ass". Sorry but I'll take my own personal experience through trial and error over some loser addicted to masturbation on the internet. Whatever helps you sleep at night.Mantis Toboggan said:-Less hammerhead sharks around you.
-Increased Bestosterone (it's like testosterone, but better).
-Less intergalactic space wars
-Supermodels only date dudes who don't MB
I figured since we're just pulling facts out of our ass, we might as well go balls to the wall.
You guys are f**kin weirdos. Masturbation, in normal quantities, will not make you better or worse at life.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.