"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Where is "the masturbation discussion"
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Atom Smasher
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If someone was to say this to me instead of me reading it, I would have definitely laughed.Atom Smasher said:
I also am wondering why....Nobody can even own up to why it was deleted. I wonder why? Maybe because they are addicted to masturbation and want everyone to believe its a good thing....I've stopped and I love getting random boners....feel like a man.blehck said:So, it has been deleted? Ok
But why? The admins and staff think its too embarassing for this forum to have this kind of topic?
It had so many good testimonials, it`s a shame that it all got lost
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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First, hahahahaaAtom Smasher said:
Secondly, I have a theory one of the moderators is a religious nut. A while back I made a thread about getting a Christian girl which got deleted... and now the epic masturbation thread? Something is going on.
cablecow15
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lmao its a conspiracy , i also read that thread , i was wanting to read it to kinda give me a boost , to not whack , and the random boners give you like a rush of man adrenaline to approach girls , especially if your well indowed in tight jeans lol jk ( i don't wear tight jeans)Chickfight said:
cablecow15
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I believe some one said masturbating is tricking your body into thinking your getting laid , so your body doesn't need to improve or become more masculine , if you stop your body's like woah wtf were not getting laid , lets change some stuff and give him boners n see if it helps him any , there may not be any science behind it , but there's defiantly something going on it may be chemical or it may be mental , but its worth it
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Atom Smasher
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For those who missed this abortion of a thread, the bottom line was: Jerking off is fine, just don't turn into a chronic porn monkey.
Benefits of not masturbating:SoSuaveDude said:
-Increased confidence
-Increased happiness (especially if you really DO want to stop masturbating)
-More interest from girls (and/or you notice this interest more easily)
-less stress
-healthier
The list goes on and on...
cablecow15
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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-Less hammerhead sharks around you.Energy25 said:
-Increased Bestosterone (it's like testosterone, but better).
-Less intergalactic space wars
-Supermodels only date dudes who don't MB
I figured since we're just pulling facts out of our ass, we might as well go balls to the wall.
You guys are f**kin weirdos. Masturbation, in normal quantities, will not make you better or worse at life.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
well think of it this way , if your gonna go home and do it yourself , you wont feel as big of a need to go out and get it from a girl , but everyone's entitled their own opinionMantis Toboggan said:
Yeah cause personal experience is "pulling facts out of your ass". Sorry but I'll take my own personal experience through trial and error over some loser addicted to masturbation on the internet. Whatever helps you sleep at night.Mantis Toboggan said:
Peace bro
Damn I mean yeah it was an interesting topic but there was more people posting there than in the mature men section...they are doing it wrong.
HariPoter13
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.