"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Where is "the masturbation discussion"
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Atom Smasher
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If someone was to say this to me instead of me reading it, I would have definitely laughed.Atom Smasher said:
I also am wondering why....Nobody can even own up to why it was deleted. I wonder why? Maybe because they are addicted to masturbation and want everyone to believe its a good thing....I've stopped and I love getting random boners....feel like a man.blehck said:So, it has been deleted? Ok
But why? The admins and staff think its too embarassing for this forum to have this kind of topic?
It had so many good testimonials, it`s a shame that it all got lost
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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First, hahahahaaAtom Smasher said:
Secondly, I have a theory one of the moderators is a religious nut. A while back I made a thread about getting a Christian girl which got deleted... and now the epic masturbation thread? Something is going on.
cablecow15
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lmao its a conspiracy , i also read that thread , i was wanting to read it to kinda give me a boost , to not whack , and the random boners give you like a rush of man adrenaline to approach girls , especially if your well indowed in tight jeans lol jk ( i don't wear tight jeans)Chickfight said:
cablecow15
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I believe some one said masturbating is tricking your body into thinking your getting laid , so your body doesn't need to improve or become more masculine , if you stop your body's like woah wtf were not getting laid , lets change some stuff and give him boners n see if it helps him any , there may not be any science behind it , but there's defiantly something going on it may be chemical or it may be mental , but its worth it
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Atom Smasher
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For those who missed this abortion of a thread, the bottom line was: Jerking off is fine, just don't turn into a chronic porn monkey.
Benefits of not masturbating:SoSuaveDude said:
-Increased confidence
-Increased happiness (especially if you really DO want to stop masturbating)
-More interest from girls (and/or you notice this interest more easily)
-less stress
-healthier
The list goes on and on...
cablecow15
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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-Less hammerhead sharks around you.Energy25 said:
-Increased Bestosterone (it's like testosterone, but better).
-Less intergalactic space wars
-Supermodels only date dudes who don't MB
I figured since we're just pulling facts out of our ass, we might as well go balls to the wall.
You guys are f**kin weirdos. Masturbation, in normal quantities, will not make you better or worse at life.
cablecow15
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well think of it this way , if your gonna go home and do it yourself , you wont feel as big of a need to go out and get it from a girl , but everyone's entitled their own opinionMantis Toboggan said:
Yeah cause personal experience is "pulling facts out of your ass". Sorry but I'll take my own personal experience through trial and error over some loser addicted to masturbation on the internet. Whatever helps you sleep at night.Mantis Toboggan said:
Peace bro
Damn I mean yeah it was an interesting topic but there was more people posting there than in the mature men section...they are doing it wrong.
HariPoter13
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.