"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Where in the world is Francisco d'Anconia?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Bat

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I think he's busy writing his full name somewhere....

Just PM him. He's around and probably busy...
 

MikeYikes122

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He is around. I think he is just dealing with a lot of stuff in real life right now.

I'd PM him if you have something you want to ask him.
 

MaddXMan

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If I had over 10,000 posts I would cool it a little, too.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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azanon

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Since I don't see the answer yet, and Francisco was always more the peacemaker, let me give it:

He went to another SS like forum that doesn't have a 10 post limit rule. And no, he didn't tell me that, but it doesn't exactly take a rocket science degree to come to that conclusion.
 

Sandow

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I don't think there's any material worth him posting anymore...

Have you seen those questions up there?? C'mon!
 

Mistic

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azanon said:
Since I don't see the answer yet, and Francisco was always more the peacemaker, let me give it:

He went to another SS like forum that doesn't have a 10 post limit rule. And no, he didn't tell me that, but it doesn't exactly take a rocket science degree to come to that conclusion.
Actually, he doesnt show up there much either. Only when some regulating needs to be done.
 
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