weakepedea
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Anyone heard from Francisco d'Anconia?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Where in the world is Francisco d'Anconia?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
MikeYikes122
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He is around. I think he is just dealing with a lot of stuff in real life right now.
I'd PM him if you have something you want to ask him.
I'd PM him if you have something you want to ask him.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
I heard he's doing porn...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
xectxny19x
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i miss the guy :flowers: ... must go spin more plates now...
Heart Break Kid
Master Don Juan
Wow, five posts and no one has spoiled the ending of Atlas Shrugged yet ! 
penkitten
Master Don Juan
he says to tell you to go spin some plates....
Francisco d'Anconia
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SharinganUser
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Never seen Francisco d'Anconia and ELStud in the same room. Coincidence?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Since I don't see the answer yet, and Francisco was always more the peacemaker, let me give it:
He went to another SS like forum that doesn't have a 10 post limit rule. And no, he didn't tell me that, but it doesn't exactly take a rocket science degree to come to that conclusion.
He went to another SS like forum that doesn't have a 10 post limit rule. And no, he didn't tell me that, but it doesn't exactly take a rocket science degree to come to that conclusion.
Mistic
Senior Don Juan
Actually, he doesnt show up there much either. Only when some regulating needs to be done.azanon said: