weakepedea
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Anyone heard from Francisco d'Anconia?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Where in the world is Francisco d'Anconia?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
MikeYikes122
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He is around. I think he is just dealing with a lot of stuff in real life right now.
I'd PM him if you have something you want to ask him.
I'd PM him if you have something you want to ask him.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
I heard he's doing porn...
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
xectxny19x
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i miss the guy :flowers: ... must go spin more plates now...
Heart Break Kid
Master Don Juan
Wow, five posts and no one has spoiled the ending of Atlas Shrugged yet ! 
penkitten
Master Don Juan
he says to tell you to go spin some plates....
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
SharinganUser
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Never seen Francisco d'Anconia and ELStud in the same room. Coincidence?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Since I don't see the answer yet, and Francisco was always more the peacemaker, let me give it:
He went to another SS like forum that doesn't have a 10 post limit rule. And no, he didn't tell me that, but it doesn't exactly take a rocket science degree to come to that conclusion.
He went to another SS like forum that doesn't have a 10 post limit rule. And no, he didn't tell me that, but it doesn't exactly take a rocket science degree to come to that conclusion.
Mistic
Senior Don Juan
Actually, he doesnt show up there much either. Only when some regulating needs to be done.azanon said: