"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Where in the world is Francisco d'Anconia?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Bat

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I think he's busy writing his full name somewhere....

Just PM him. He's around and probably busy...
 

MikeYikes122

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He is around. I think he is just dealing with a lot of stuff in real life right now.

I'd PM him if you have something you want to ask him.
 

MaddXMan

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If I had over 10,000 posts I would cool it a little, too.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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azanon

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Since I don't see the answer yet, and Francisco was always more the peacemaker, let me give it:

He went to another SS like forum that doesn't have a 10 post limit rule. And no, he didn't tell me that, but it doesn't exactly take a rocket science degree to come to that conclusion.
 

Sandow

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I don't think there's any material worth him posting anymore...

Have you seen those questions up there?? C'mon!
 

Mistic

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azanon said:
Since I don't see the answer yet, and Francisco was always more the peacemaker, let me give it:

He went to another SS like forum that doesn't have a 10 post limit rule. And no, he didn't tell me that, but it doesn't exactly take a rocket science degree to come to that conclusion.
Actually, he doesnt show up there much either. Only when some regulating needs to be done.
 
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