Where do you stop?

[disfunktional]

Hey,

Say you date a girl a couple of times, fcuk a few times but you know you aren't interested in a relationship with this girl, but you can easily get sex out of her. Do you just keep getting sex until she flakes, or do you give her the LJBF? Where is the point that you feel you are just using her, or do you never feel that at all?

Interested to hear your thoughts.

Peace.

df

 

[Phyzzle]

Keep going until she asks, "so . . . are we together? Have you stopped seeing other people?" When that happens DONT LIE TO KEEP THE SEX GOING. Just say no.

Until then, sex for the next 10 years doesn't mean you're promising a relaitonship. Not in our culture.

What, do you think this woman hasn ever dated (or continued to date) a man she has no serious interest in? Never? Yeah, right, of course she has.
~Phyzzle

 

[NewMan]

I agree.

You keep fvcking her until one of a few things happen.

1) You get tired.

2) she gets tired

3) she gives you pressure on a 'relationship' level.


When she starts inviting you out with her friends, or to visit her family - or gives you the 3rd degree "pillow talk" - you know it's time to jump ship. Don't get roped into the relationship.

 

[Latinoman]

I agree.

You keep fvcking her until one of a few things happen.

1) You get tired.

2) she gets tired

3) she gives you pressure on a 'relationship' level.


When she starts inviting you out with her friends, or to visit her family - or gives you the 3rd degree "pillow talk" - you know it's time to jump ship. Don't get roped into the relationship.

Exactly.

I mean...he is not using her, UNLESS he made her believe they are in a "relationship" (they are not).

 

[disfunktional]

Wise words, I see what you are saying. Thanks guys.

 

[disfunktional]

Hmmm, she has asked if I would like to go away with her!! Time to bail me thinks??