"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Where did my "WYLDFIRE GONE?!?!?" thread go?

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See the title.

It's gone from the Anything Else Forum!!

I did a search on it and it wasn't there!

What is going on?

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Success = Confidence + Charisma + Kino + a Smile

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Has been deleted
 

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It was probably deleted because it was merely a thread started to instigate a flame fest. I don't think anyone responded to it anyhow. I know I didn't.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire:
It was probably deleted because it was merely a thread started to instigate a flame fest. I don't think anyone responded to it anyhow. I know I didn't.
No it wasn't actually. I just realised that i hadn't seen you post for a few weeks and thought u might have left. Obviously not. No I didn't expect you to respond!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Originally posted by De La Soul:
No it wasn't actually. I just realised that i hadn't seen you post for a few weeks and thought u might have left. Obviously not. No I didn't expect you to respond!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I did leave. I just started posting again a few days ago on one thread in anything else on a non-dating topic. Then I saw your post and the gleeful celabratory comment you made about me being gone. So, I started posting more...JUST for you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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De La Soul

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LOL How could I have been so stupid?
 

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Originally posted by De La Soul:
LOL How could I have been so stupid?
Now see, you just learned a very valuable lesson. The more any of the guys complain or give me grief, the more I usually post.
 
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