"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Where did my "WYLDFIRE GONE?!?!?" thread go?

De La Soul

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See the title.

It's gone from the Anything Else Forum!!

I did a search on it and it wasn't there!

What is going on?

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Has been deleted
 

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It was probably deleted because it was merely a thread started to instigate a flame fest. I don't think anyone responded to it anyhow. I know I didn't.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire:
It was probably deleted because it was merely a thread started to instigate a flame fest. I don't think anyone responded to it anyhow. I know I didn't.
No it wasn't actually. I just realised that i hadn't seen you post for a few weeks and thought u might have left. Obviously not. No I didn't expect you to respond!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Originally posted by De La Soul:
No it wasn't actually. I just realised that i hadn't seen you post for a few weeks and thought u might have left. Obviously not. No I didn't expect you to respond!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I did leave. I just started posting again a few days ago on one thread in anything else on a non-dating topic. Then I saw your post and the gleeful celabratory comment you made about me being gone. So, I started posting more...JUST for you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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De La Soul

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LOL How could I have been so stupid?
 

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Originally posted by De La Soul:
LOL How could I have been so stupid?
Now see, you just learned a very valuable lesson. The more any of the guys complain or give me grief, the more I usually post.
 
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