"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where did my "WYLDFIRE GONE?!?!?" thread go?

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See the title.

It's gone from the Anything Else Forum!!

I did a search on it and it wasn't there!

What is going on?

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Success = Confidence + Charisma + Kino + a Smile

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Has been deleted
 

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It was probably deleted because it was merely a thread started to instigate a flame fest. I don't think anyone responded to it anyhow. I know I didn't.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire:
It was probably deleted because it was merely a thread started to instigate a flame fest. I don't think anyone responded to it anyhow. I know I didn't.
No it wasn't actually. I just realised that i hadn't seen you post for a few weeks and thought u might have left. Obviously not. No I didn't expect you to respond!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Originally posted by De La Soul:
No it wasn't actually. I just realised that i hadn't seen you post for a few weeks and thought u might have left. Obviously not. No I didn't expect you to respond!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I did leave. I just started posting again a few days ago on one thread in anything else on a non-dating topic. Then I saw your post and the gleeful celabratory comment you made about me being gone. So, I started posting more...JUST for you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LOL How could I have been so stupid?
 

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Originally posted by De La Soul:
LOL How could I have been so stupid?
Now see, you just learned a very valuable lesson. The more any of the guys complain or give me grief, the more I usually post.
 
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