"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Where did my "WYLDFIRE GONE?!?!?" thread go?

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See the title.

It's gone from the Anything Else Forum!!

I did a search on it and it wasn't there!

What is going on?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It was probably deleted because it was merely a thread started to instigate a flame fest. I don't think anyone responded to it anyhow. I know I didn't.
 
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Originally posted by Wyldfire:
It was probably deleted because it was merely a thread started to instigate a flame fest. I don't think anyone responded to it anyhow. I know I didn't.
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No it wasn't actually. I just realised that i hadn't seen you post for a few weeks and thought u might have left. Obviously not. No I didn't expect you to respond!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Originally posted by De La Soul:
No it wasn't actually. I just realised that i hadn't seen you post for a few weeks and thought u might have left. Obviously not. No I didn't expect you to respond!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I did leave. I just started posting again a few days ago on one thread in anything else on a non-dating topic. Then I saw your post and the gleeful celabratory comment you made about me being gone. So, I started posting more...JUST for you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LOL How could I have been so stupid?
 
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Originally posted by De La Soul:
LOL How could I have been so stupid?
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Now see, you just learned a very valuable lesson. The more any of the guys complain or give me grief, the more I usually post.
 
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