"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Where can I find a woman with low self esteem?

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Where can I find a woman with low self esteem? How can I spot one that is lonely, a little desperate and has a low self-esteem?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Suppose there's some truth to what yr saying . . .But I think its best you rephrase yrself in to "Where can I find a level headed woman" . . .If you want to meet a woman with low self esteem - it sort of makes you sound like yr interested in meeting a Crack ***** . .And I would be careful with those..:moon:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What drugs have you been taking?

Dude . . . .

Yr missing the point I'm making . . .You must have pretty low self esteem yrself to want to hook up with a girl that is such . . .Or are one of those who finds intelligent and confident women quite intimidating???:nono:
 

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I can write pages about this, but I am not going to, because it is all very simple.

Low Self Esteem >> Easy >> More likely to be emotionally fukked up, drug abuser, heavy drinker, WHOLE BUNCH OF WORMS IN HER HEAD = CRAZY

Regular Girl >> Negs >> Low self esteem > Sex = Acceptable

Low self esteem >> Neg >> Pissed off or already blowing you.

Just stay away from these girls unless you want a basket of STD's, emotional rollercoaster and more.

Or don't, whichever.
 

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Most girls have self esteem issues. Remember girls are much more emotionally fragile then men but they are very good at putting up confident fronts. From my experience hb1-6 have the most self esteem issues, not to say all of them do. However, if you're approaching hb7+ make sure you are confident yourself or they'll sense your weakness and insecurities.
 

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WRX_is_like_SEX said:
Dude . . . .

Yr missing the point I'm making . . .You must have pretty low self esteem yrself to want to hook up with a girl that is such . . .Or are one of those who finds intelligent and confident women quite intimidating???:nono:

I don't even know how to respond to this. Because my self esteem is not low, and I am not intimidated by intelligent, confident women.

I just want an answer to my questions, nothing more, nothing less. Besides if anything answering them will also give me the power to AVOID these women when I want to. I want to know both sides of the equation.

You are reading into this to much. I asked a question and I want an answer.
 

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WRX_is_like_SEX said:
Dude . . . .

Yr missing the point I'm making . . .You must have pretty low self esteem yrself to want to hook up with a girl that is such . . .Or are one of those who finds intelligent and confident women quite intimidating???:nono:
and you win the american feminist b.s. award for 2006. 98% of the people on this planet have major self-esteem issues. 99% of females have really major self-esteem issues. in america girls just put up huge walls. they have been told that aggressive confident girls are sexy. this is a load of crap. a normal male wants a girl that he can protect and take care of. he wants to feel needed. he wants clingy. he wants needy. too bad for you guys that america/western europe is telling girls that such behavior is wrong.

most of you guys have no clue as to how girls feel. practically every single normal girl on this planet feels all alone. almost all of them feel like there isn't a soul on earth who they connect with. once again, the american chubster just pretends that this isn't the case. behind the layers of fat and loudness are girls that just want to be loved for who they are. as long as they don't look for me to be doing the loving i am cool with it :nervous:

the more intelligent you are, the more likely you are to be screwed up in the brain. the world is harsh and ugly. it is filled with pain and suffering. intelligent people see this. simple minded people just want a new playstation 3.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sparky0000 said:
and you win the american feminist b.s. award for 2006. 98% of the people on this planet have major self-esteem issues. 99% of females have really major self-esteem issues. in america girls just put up huge walls. they have been told that aggressive confident girls are sexy. this is a load of crap. a normal male wants a girl that he can protect and take care of. he wants to feel needed. he wants clingy. he wants needy. too bad for you guys that america/western europe is telling girls that such behavior is wrong.

most of you guys have no clue as to how girls feel. practically every single normal girl on this planet feels all alone. almost all of them feel like there isn't a soul on earth who they connect with. once again, the american chubster just pretends that this isn't the case. behind the layers of fat and loudness are girls that just want to be loved for who they are. as long as they don't look for me to be doing the loving i am cool with it :nervous:

the more intelligent you are, the more likely you are to be screwed up in the brain. the world is harsh and ugly. it is filled with pain and suffering. intelligent people see this. simple minded people just want a new playstation 3.
THANK YOU. Too many dumb kids think just because a girl appears confident or that they are beautiful that they must have the best lives as confident people. Unfortunately, that is not the case considering most beautiful girls go through life seeking continuous validation with seemingly no end in their pursuit = The most depressed people imaginable. Of course they are perfect actors and dont show it. The true winners and happy people in life are those who understand that life is really, truly too short to even think about such pithy things; go out their take risks, and enjoy it before you die and the neighborhood dog pisses on your grave for you are truly not that important to feel insecure and upset over things.
 

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well, not surprising that it takes a persian to get it :rock:

some simple basic fact that can make your life easier...
--beauty, wealth, fame, and intelligence do not create a high level of self-esteem. most of the people who fall into one of these categories are even more screwed up than the average member of this board is. yes, i know that is scary but it is the truth.

--girls can't stand other girls. if a girl is honest with you she will tell you how much she hates her best friend.

--most people are very fragile. girls even more so. you want to ruin a girls day? just look at her and laugh while shaking your head a bit. it will crush her. it will also make you sexier. sounds cruel, but cruel guys usually win.

--finally, most girls could give a damn about what you do in bed. it simply is not that important to them. how many dumba$$es post sex questions on here? too many. one last time...a normal girl doesn't care.

this list proves true no matter where you go on earth. the difference is that american/british girls just hide things more. they think that guys don't want a girl to come across as needy. shows you that they are about as clueless as you are.

in many cultures it is cool for girls to be open about how uncertain and needy they are. they understand that this is a MAJOR thing for guys. almost all of you want an attractive girl to really need you. just imagine how that would feel :yes: practically none of you want an independent girl who has her own life and doesn't need you.
 

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Hence FEMININITY. What we as males are supposed to be attracted too. Unfortunately as the days pass more men are becoming feminine and more women are becoming masculine. Truly sad.
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sparky0000 said:
and you win the american feminist b.s. award for 2006. 98% of the people on this planet have major self-esteem issues. 99% of females have really major self-esteem issues. in america girls just put up huge walls. they have been told that aggressive confident girls are sexy. this is a load of crap. a normal male wants a girl that he can protect and take care of. he wants to feel needed. he wants clingy. he wants needy. too bad for you guys that america/western europe is telling girls that such behavior is wrong.

most of you guys have no clue as to how girls feel. practically every single normal girl on this planet feels all alone. almost all of them feel like there isn't a soul on earth who they connect with. once again, the american chubster just pretends that this isn't the case. behind the layers of fat and loudness are girls that just want to be loved for who they are. as long as they don't look for me to be doing the loving i am cool with it :nervous:

the more intelligent you are, the more likely you are to be screwed up in the brain. the world is harsh and ugly. it is filled with pain and suffering. intelligent people see this. simple minded people just want a new playstation 3.

Now tell me Sparky . . .Are you not a bit of a d*ck head???

. . .Sure . . .There are a lot of girls with self esteem issues, followed by some of your b-rate psychology . . .But more to the point . . .I like to aim hi, because I consider myself as having high value, rather than consciously going for low esteemed loser, i have 10 tonns of luggage up their girls . . .

n.b . . .I am not American..:up:
 

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WRX_is_like_SEX said:
Now tell me Sparky . . .Are you not a bit of a d*ck head???

. . .Sure . . .There are a lot of girls with self esteem issues, followed by some of your b-rate psychology . . .But more to the point . . .I like to aim hi, because I consider myself as having high value, rather than consciously going for low esteemed loser, i have 10 tonns of luggage up their girls . . .

n.b . . .I am not American..:up:

Did you come on here to answer my question, or to just thow insults from a top of your high horse? You seem to be just doing the later.
 

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Shouldn't you be out there fvcking some nutcase right about now?

Here, I will make it VERY EASY for you. Find a girl. Any girl. Then say "Have you been stressed lately? You look tired" Viola! If I see you post again in here you will be banned forever.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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