Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yes actually clubs, malls and street are filled with ONS material. I`m lookin for LTR material. I might try the library and community center... it`s usually nerdy chicks though.PeeGee said:
PeterNorthisawesome said:
I dunno about basing LTR soley on personality. That`s what fugly chicks say... I`m def gonna cheat on a girl if she isnt that hot. lol maybe I`m not ready for LTR! I just wanna girlfriend so I don`t have to worry about STDs and all that drama BS. I guess it`s impossible to find quality chicks in the US... guess I`ll keep being a MAN SLUT!!!!!!!!!! :rockon:Serialized3 said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Whatever suits you.PeterNorthisawesome said:
Too bad they suck at blow jobs cuz they have braces on... ouch...Serialized3 said:Whatever suits you.
Although, I never said personality should be the sole thing you base an LTR on. Obviously, the girl has to be physically attractive and not an uggo. But, you might be suprised how good some of the "nerdy" type girls look naked
I was actually reading his recent posts and it was actually interesting... I thought he was a retard lol but he`s just anti-american chicks.Last Man Standing said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Good point... too bad u don`t know quality since you prob haven`t left the USA. I guess when I meant quality I meant HOT enough to f'ck like models and cheerleaders.HaremMasterThomas said:
LOL - the only problem with basing an ltr MERELY on looks is that no matter how HOT they are you get used to their looks and they just don't seem that hot anymore - there is always another hotter girl around the corner.PeterNorthisawesome said: