You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yes actually clubs, malls and street are filled with ONS material. I`m lookin for LTR material. I might try the library and community center... it`s usually nerdy chicks though.PeeGee said:
PeterNorthisawesome said:
I dunno about basing LTR soley on personality. That`s what fugly chicks say... I`m def gonna cheat on a girl if she isnt that hot. lol maybe I`m not ready for LTR! I just wanna girlfriend so I don`t have to worry about STDs and all that drama BS. I guess it`s impossible to find quality chicks in the US... guess I`ll keep being a MAN SLUT!!!!!!!!!! :rockon:Serialized3 said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Whatever suits you.PeterNorthisawesome said:
Too bad they suck at blow jobs cuz they have braces on... ouch...Serialized3 said:Whatever suits you.
Although, I never said personality should be the sole thing you base an LTR on. Obviously, the girl has to be physically attractive and not an uggo. But, you might be suprised how good some of the "nerdy" type girls look naked
I was actually reading his recent posts and it was actually interesting... I thought he was a retard lol but he`s just anti-american chicks.Last Man Standing said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Good point... too bad u don`t know quality since you prob haven`t left the USA. I guess when I meant quality I meant HOT enough to f'ck like models and cheerleaders.HaremMasterThomas said:
LOL - the only problem with basing an ltr MERELY on looks is that no matter how HOT they are you get used to their looks and they just don't seem that hot anymore - there is always another hotter girl around the corner.PeterNorthisawesome said: