"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where are Quality Women in the US?

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Hello fellow DJs I recently noticed that I wanted a LTR, since I grew out of the experimenting stage. So I wanted to know where I can find LTR material in the US! Most US girls I met so far are immature and... ignorant/dumb, good for ONS but huge headache for LTR. I`m starting to think it`s impossible to find a decent girl here... well any advice or help would be good. Thanks in advance. :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Library, College, Clubs, Street, Malls, Community Center....do I really need to tell you this?
 
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PeeGee said:
Library, College, Clubs, Street, Malls, Community Center....do I really need to tell you this?
Yes actually clubs, malls and street are filled with ONS material. I`m lookin for LTR material. I might try the library and community center... it`s usually nerdy chicks though.
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Yes actually clubs, malls and street are filled with ONS material. I`m lookin for LTR material. I might try the library and community center... it`s usually nerdy chicks though.

Don't be so hasty to DQ chicks due to what "type" you think they are. As long as they're attractive enough for you to bone, personality should be the #1 deciding factor in what you go for in an LTR.
 
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Serialized3 said:
Don't be so hasty to DQ chicks due to what "type" you think they are. As long as they're attractive enough for you to bone, personality should be the #1 deciding factor in what you go for in an LTR.
I dunno about basing LTR soley on personality. That`s what fugly chicks say... I`m def gonna cheat on a girl if she isnt that hot. lol maybe I`m not ready for LTR! I just wanna girlfriend so I don`t have to worry about STDs and all that drama BS. I guess it`s impossible to find quality chicks in the US... guess I`ll keep being a MAN SLUT!!!!!!!!!! :rockon:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
I dunno about basing LTR soley on personality. That`s what fugly chicks say... I`m def gonna cheat on a girl if she isnt that hot. lol maybe I`m not ready for LTR! I just wanna girlfriend so I don`t have to worry about STDs and all that drama BS. I guess it`s impossible to find quality chicks in the US... guess I`ll keep being a MAN SLUT!!!!!!!!!! :rockon:
Whatever suits you.

Although, I never said personality should be the sole thing you base an LTR on. Obviously, the girl has to be physically attractive and not an uggo. But, you might be suprised how good some of the "nerdy" type girls look naked ;)
 
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Sparky0000 knows the answer to this question!
 
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Serialized3 said:
Whatever suits you.

Although, I never said personality should be the sole thing you base an LTR on. Obviously, the girl has to be physically attractive and not an uggo. But, you might be suprised how good some of the "nerdy" type girls look naked ;)
Too bad they suck at blow jobs cuz they have braces on... ouch...
 

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The quality women are the ones that you just happen to run into through friends and stuff,not while your out sarging. You basically find them when you aren't looking.

Funny how that works out huh?:p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you were AlphaMale you would meet many quality woman in the USA.
Good point... too bad u don`t know quality since you prob haven`t left the USA. I guess when I meant quality I meant HOT enough to f'ck like models and cheerleaders.
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Good point... too bad u don`t know quality since you prob haven`t left the USA. I guess when I meant quality I meant HOT enough to f'ck like models and cheerleaders.
LOL - the only problem with basing an ltr MERELY on looks is that no matter how HOT they are you get used to their looks and they just don't seem that hot anymore - there is always another hotter girl around the corner.
 
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