Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yes actually clubs, malls and street are filled with ONS material. I`m lookin for LTR material. I might try the library and community center... it`s usually nerdy chicks though.PeeGee said:
PeterNorthisawesome said:
I dunno about basing LTR soley on personality. That`s what fugly chicks say... I`m def gonna cheat on a girl if she isnt that hot. lol maybe I`m not ready for LTR! I just wanna girlfriend so I don`t have to worry about STDs and all that drama BS. I guess it`s impossible to find quality chicks in the US... guess I`ll keep being a MAN SLUT!!!!!!!!!! :rockon:Serialized3 said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Whatever suits you.PeterNorthisawesome said:
Too bad they suck at blow jobs cuz they have braces on... ouch...Serialized3 said:Whatever suits you.
Although, I never said personality should be the sole thing you base an LTR on. Obviously, the girl has to be physically attractive and not an uggo. But, you might be suprised how good some of the "nerdy" type girls look naked
I was actually reading his recent posts and it was actually interesting... I thought he was a retard lol but he`s just anti-american chicks.Last Man Standing said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Good point... too bad u don`t know quality since you prob haven`t left the USA. I guess when I meant quality I meant HOT enough to f'ck like models and cheerleaders.HaremMasterThomas said:
LOL - the only problem with basing an ltr MERELY on looks is that no matter how HOT they are you get used to their looks and they just don't seem that hot anymore - there is always another hotter girl around the corner.PeterNorthisawesome said: