"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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iMat

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I've decided to stop DJing.

Sure there are a lot of attractive girls in high school, but why would I care?

Most are mediocre. The hot ones are ususally taken, and everybody's a confused, insecure mess, with the average intellect of _____________ (you think of simile there).

So, when does it all break over? When does everybody just calm down, the rivalries stop, and everything just gets more suave?

--iMat
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Djing isn't a "technique" you can just "stop". Unless you mean giving up girls.
 

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DJ is supposed to be a mindset. You can never quit it.
 

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you haven't decided to stop, because you never got started.

you'll be back here in a week after you realize what a pathetic excuse this post really is. you're just too lazy to put forth the effort into getting girls.
 

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<insert cliche statement about how DJing is a way of life an not just about getting girls>


Or rather, let's be realistic. To paraphrase El-P:

"You won't DJ because you can't DJ. It's not a choice, despite what you might tell your boys."
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think there is a misunderstanding here.

By the meaning of "stop DJing", I don't mean erase my whole mindset and turn the clock back. I simply meant to raise my standards, and wait.

--iMat
 

Porky

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stop making excuses. we don't want to hear them.
 

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Originally posted by iMat
I've decided to stop DJing.

Sure there are a lot of attractive girls in high school, but why would I care?

Most are mediocre. The hot ones are ususally taken, and everybody's a confused, insecure mess, with the average intellect of _____________ (you think of simile there).

So, when does it all break over? When does everybody just calm down, the rivalries stop, and everything just gets more suave?

--iMat
Excuses. Excuses because you probably realize that you A)Will need to work to be a DJ or B) Are afraid of it.
 

LikRetsam

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I think he's tired of shyt girls. Anyways, listen to porky.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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