"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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iMat

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I've decided to stop DJing.

Sure there are a lot of attractive girls in high school, but why would I care?

Most are mediocre. The hot ones are ususally taken, and everybody's a confused, insecure mess, with the average intellect of _____________ (you think of simile there).

So, when does it all break over? When does everybody just calm down, the rivalries stop, and everything just gets more suave?

--iMat
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Djing isn't a "technique" you can just "stop". Unless you mean giving up girls.
 

Kidd

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DJ is supposed to be a mindset. You can never quit it.
 

Porky

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you haven't decided to stop, because you never got started.

you'll be back here in a week after you realize what a pathetic excuse this post really is. you're just too lazy to put forth the effort into getting girls.
 

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<insert cliche statement about how DJing is a way of life an not just about getting girls>


Or rather, let's be realistic. To paraphrase El-P:

"You won't DJ because you can't DJ. It's not a choice, despite what you might tell your boys."
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I think there is a misunderstanding here.

By the meaning of "stop DJing", I don't mean erase my whole mindset and turn the clock back. I simply meant to raise my standards, and wait.

--iMat
 

Porky

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stop making excuses. we don't want to hear them.
 

Heizen

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Originally posted by iMat
I've decided to stop DJing.

Sure there are a lot of attractive girls in high school, but why would I care?

Most are mediocre. The hot ones are ususally taken, and everybody's a confused, insecure mess, with the average intellect of _____________ (you think of simile there).

So, when does it all break over? When does everybody just calm down, the rivalries stop, and everything just gets more suave?

--iMat
Excuses. Excuses because you probably realize that you A)Will need to work to be a DJ or B) Are afraid of it.
 

LikRetsam

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I think he's tired of shyt girls. Anyways, listen to porky.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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