"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When you're drunk

Abbott

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I disagree. I'm almost exactly the same, even if I drank too much to drive home. The worst thing I've ever done is tell a couple girls that I thought they were "hot," something I'd never do when I'm sober. Thankfully I thought they actually were attractive. My standards don't drop due to alcohol consumption.

That's good, as I won't do anything outrageous. That and the fact that on New Year's Eve I plan to go to a nearby town because from what I've heard the nightlife is better there, and the bars/clubs stay open later (4AM!).

Ben
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TyTe`EyEs

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I do a lot of stupid **** when I'm drunk, but one great thing about being inebriated is I have complete control of when I want to bust a nut. I can bang it out for hours if I want to.
 

michaelhctam

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When I am drunk I am either 3 things.

1. Horny and treat women like meat.

2. Quiet and antisocial looking like I am on the verge of grabbing a knife from the table and slitting everyones throat in a rage.

3. Find the biggest looking mofo and sticking my middle finger in his face.
 

Mr.Fantastic

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Have you guys ever been drunk in front of your girlfriends and acted stupid? If so how did that go?

Also, have you ever been out with drunken friends that behaved disturbingly bad and made you look bad in front of your girlfriend?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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STR8UP

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Awhile back one of my lady friends stopped by with a few of her girlfriends and a bottle of Absinthe. A few drinks in I was SH!TFACED. I barely remember leaving my place to go to the clubs.

The funny thing is, my chick friend told me the other day that girl "X" was asking about me.

Apparently I made an impression on one of her friends even when I was fukked up out of my mind. From what I understood I made an ass of myself that night (I was in rare form from the Absinthe). The BAD thing is, I don't remember ever even MEETING her friend. Hmmm.........
 
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