If she is going to come back, do you think NC will be what does it? or that I should stay NC longer then hit her up to hang out?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
If she is going to come back, do you think NC will be what does it? or that I should stay NC longer then hit her up to hang out?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
SgtSplacker
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Just trying to hookup with a girl that is with a man makes you look bad for several reasons. Not only that but you know what the first problem is that you guys are going have if things go happily ever after for you two? Issues with trust, and that is one of the most difficult things to recover from. You're on a mission just to get a flawed relationship, some dudes prolly piping your girl right now and this girl doesn't even really do it for you. Stop wasting your time.
She's still with the uber beta, so if he's piping her that's no biggie. I get where you're coming from on some of the other stuff, but I know you dont wanna sit through my rationalizations to the contrary.
Do you think no contact will make her miss me enough to hit me up?
Go NC to move on, not to get her back. You should stop bumping this thread and let it die.
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agree 100%
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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NC might do it, keep an eye on her because you just know she's going to leave the loser eventually.
NSX-R
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After 2 months she's gonna write to you.
I agree. I accidentally called her on skype on the sixth, and we spoke briefly via text. She knew it was an accidental clcik and i meant to click a diff name, Id say that pushed the date back a bit but it will happen