If she is going to come back, do you think NC will be what does it? or that I should stay NC longer then hit her up to hang out?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If she is going to come back, do you think NC will be what does it? or that I should stay NC longer then hit her up to hang out?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
SgtSplacker
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Just trying to hookup with a girl that is with a man makes you look bad for several reasons. Not only that but you know what the first problem is that you guys are going have if things go happily ever after for you two? Issues with trust, and that is one of the most difficult things to recover from. You're on a mission just to get a flawed relationship, some dudes prolly piping your girl right now and this girl doesn't even really do it for you. Stop wasting your time.
She's still with the uber beta, so if he's piping her that's no biggie. I get where you're coming from on some of the other stuff, but I know you dont wanna sit through my rationalizations to the contrary.
Do you think no contact will make her miss me enough to hit me up?
Go NC to move on, not to get her back. You should stop bumping this thread and let it die.
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agree 100%
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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NC might do it, keep an eye on her because you just know she's going to leave the loser eventually.
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After 2 months she's gonna write to you.
I agree. I accidentally called her on skype on the sixth, and we spoke briefly via text. She knew it was an accidental clcik and i meant to click a diff name, Id say that pushed the date back a bit but it will happen