"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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When working, do you all take true breaks?

nicksaiz65

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I'm sure that all of us here on Sosuave are here on a Self-Improvement regimen of some sorts. Combine that with our normal day to day jobs, and it's a lot to handle. We eventually get tired from that.

So my question to you all is, when you take breaks do you make sure it's tied to your self improvement regimen? Therefore you'd be "working" 24/7? For example, when you're exhausted, do you play a video game or watch a movie? Or do you make sure you only relax by doing things like hitting the gym, or investing in your hobbies?

I ask because I'm wondering if I would be considered lazy by taking half a day off sometimes and not really working on my passions. What do you all do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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redskinsfan92

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You have to rest at sometime. Even God rested on the 7th day.
 

EyeBRollin

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Rest is great.

The key to always working is to find hobbies that either make money or build skills in other areas of your life.

For example, women make me better at sales. Chess makes me better at strategizing. Playing blackjack (I count cards) improves memory, arithmetic, and quells my risk taking and competitive tendencies. Exercise gives the mind a break. Cooking improves my health and gives the both the body and mind a break. Reading expands knowledge.

I rarely veg out in any capacity. Forums are sort of my “rest” but in all phases of life I’m striving to move forward. Find different things you love and cycle them. That way you’re never too tired in any one area.
 

lamath

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Yea i take break
I use the time to eat protein protein protein

I do eat 6-8 meal a day depending if i work out or not
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nicksaiz65

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Rest is great.

The key to always working is to find hobbies that either make money or build skills in other areas of your life.

For example, women make me better at sales. Chess makes me better at strategizing. Playing blackjack (I count cards) improves memory, arithmetic, and quells my risk taking and competitive tendencies. Exercise gives the mind a break. Cooking improves my health and gives the both the body and mind a break. Reading expands knowledge.

I rarely veg out in any capacity. Forums are sort of my “rest” but in all phases of life I’m striving to move forward. Find different things you love and cycle them. That way you’re never too tired in any one area.
I realize this is a late reply but this is a great answer, pretty much exactly what I’m gonna need to do to succeed in my life
 
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