"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When working, do you all take true breaks?

nicksaiz65

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I'm sure that all of us here on Sosuave are here on a Self-Improvement regimen of some sorts. Combine that with our normal day to day jobs, and it's a lot to handle. We eventually get tired from that.

So my question to you all is, when you take breaks do you make sure it's tied to your self improvement regimen? Therefore you'd be "working" 24/7? For example, when you're exhausted, do you play a video game or watch a movie? Or do you make sure you only relax by doing things like hitting the gym, or investing in your hobbies?

I ask because I'm wondering if I would be considered lazy by taking half a day off sometimes and not really working on my passions. What do you all do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You have to rest at sometime. Even God rested on the 7th day.
 

EyeBRollin

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Rest is great.

The key to always working is to find hobbies that either make money or build skills in other areas of your life.

For example, women make me better at sales. Chess makes me better at strategizing. Playing blackjack (I count cards) improves memory, arithmetic, and quells my risk taking and competitive tendencies. Exercise gives the mind a break. Cooking improves my health and gives the both the body and mind a break. Reading expands knowledge.

I rarely veg out in any capacity. Forums are sort of my “rest” but in all phases of life I’m striving to move forward. Find different things you love and cycle them. That way you’re never too tired in any one area.
 

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Yea i take break
I use the time to eat protein protein protein

I do eat 6-8 meal a day depending if i work out or not
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rest is great.

The key to always working is to find hobbies that either make money or build skills in other areas of your life.

For example, women make me better at sales. Chess makes me better at strategizing. Playing blackjack (I count cards) improves memory, arithmetic, and quells my risk taking and competitive tendencies. Exercise gives the mind a break. Cooking improves my health and gives the both the body and mind a break. Reading expands knowledge.

I rarely veg out in any capacity. Forums are sort of my “rest” but in all phases of life I’m striving to move forward. Find different things you love and cycle them. That way you’re never too tired in any one area.
I realize this is a late reply but this is a great answer, pretty much exactly what I’m gonna need to do to succeed in my life
 
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