"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When women ask you "do you have a girlfriend"?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
the pokemaster
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If you are a single guy, how would you respond to it?
And does that normally mean, they are somewhat attracted to you if they ask that?
Some married chick at work asked me this earlier.
In this world where game playin and mixed signals is every woman's favorite pastime you shouldnt take too seriously what some broad comes upwith in their head to ask you. It could be a wide variety of reasons why she asked- It could be that she has some personal interest but most likely its purely innocent. She probably figures that your'e a good guy and was wondering why you dont have a woman.
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If you are single, then all you have to say is that you are single, and if/when they ask you WHY, then you simply tell them that its because you choose to be. The continue to say that you are just taking your love life as it comes and when you meet someone special then you will know it, but till that time you are enjoying life for what it is.. You have friends, family, hobbies, parties, etc.verysuave said:
And if she asks you "How will you know when someone special comes along" then you reply saying something along the lines of "Well I have met and spent time with my fair share of women in my life, so I pretty much know what to look for, and what to look OUT for in a woman.
" Also remember to ask her about herself and HER love life as well, while you are on the topic.
Laterz...
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Don't read into things so much and don't focus on the details. Take your interactions as whole. Look for the bigger picture.
So the question here is "how did she ask you?"... body language, eye contact, touching, smiling, etc.