"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When women ask you "do you have a girlfriend"?

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If you are a single guy, how would you respond to it?

And does that normally mean, they are somewhat attracted to you if they ask that?

Some married chick at work asked me this earlier.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If you are a single guy, how would you respond to it?

And does that normally mean, they are somewhat attracted to you if they ask that?

Some married chick at work asked me this earlier.




In this world where game playin and mixed signals is every woman's favorite pastime you shouldnt take too seriously what some broad comes upwith in their head to ask you. It could be a wide variety of reasons why she asked- It could be that she has some personal interest but most likely its purely innocent. She probably figures that your'e a good guy and was wondering why you dont have a woman.


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hmm...

verysuave said:
If you are a single guy, how would you respond to it?

And does that normally mean, they are somewhat attracted to you if they ask that?

Some married chick at work asked me this earlier.
If you are single, then all you have to say is that you are single, and if/when they ask you WHY, then you simply tell them that its because you choose to be. The continue to say that you are just taking your love life as it comes and when you meet someone special then you will know it, but till that time you are enjoying life for what it is.. You have friends, family, hobbies, parties, etc.

And if she asks you "How will you know when someone special comes along" then you reply saying something along the lines of "Well I have met and spent time with my fair share of women in my life, so I pretty much know what to look for, and what to look OUT for in a woman. :)"

Also remember to ask her about herself and HER love life as well, while you are on the topic. ;)


Laterz...
 

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"I'm currently interviewing women to fill the position, give me your number and we'll set up an interview."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Keep in mind that women in general, are incredibly interested in the love lives of other people (think why soap operas are so popular among women). It does not mean she is into you at all. I have a purely platonic female friend who constantly inquires about how things are going with other girls. I can tell you there is zero, possibly a negative percent chance that we'll ever get together.

Don't read into things so much and don't focus on the details. Take your interactions as whole. Look for the bigger picture.
 

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I've read somewhere that what people say only makes up about 7% of any conversation, body language and tone make up the rest.

So the question here is "how did she ask you?"... body language, eye contact, touching, smiling, etc.
 
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