"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When to stop calling and let her make the effort??

No Escape

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When you first start dating a chick and you're always the one calling to talk and making plans to hang out, at what point would you say it's time to stop and let her make the effort??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Demodulate

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I think its a give and take kinda thing... if you take her out and she doesnt call to say thanks or alteast call to say hello after the fact why call her again, shes obviously not that interested...
 

DoubleD

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I'd say that it depends how much you actually desire this woman. Sure thats running into one-itis etc.. but the fact may be that you haven't spent enough time with her to really dig you. And it does take time. Not all women are going to be all ON immediatly and some will take longer than others. As much as I hate to quantify stuff i'd say that if after around 7 hrs of being together she doesn't respond... she probably doesn't care and you know that your game needs work.
 

FratAndDiddy

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remember bro, YOU are the one in charge. you control the progression of the dating process or what i call "game." she will soon figure this out with you and she will wait for your call.
if the calls aint soon enough for her, she will call. if she is interested of course.
 
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