"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When to stop calling and let her make the effort??

No Escape

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When you first start dating a chick and you're always the one calling to talk and making plans to hang out, at what point would you say it's time to stop and let her make the effort??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Demodulate

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I think its a give and take kinda thing... if you take her out and she doesnt call to say thanks or alteast call to say hello after the fact why call her again, shes obviously not that interested...
 

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I'd say that it depends how much you actually desire this woman. Sure thats running into one-itis etc.. but the fact may be that you haven't spent enough time with her to really dig you. And it does take time. Not all women are going to be all ON immediatly and some will take longer than others. As much as I hate to quantify stuff i'd say that if after around 7 hrs of being together she doesn't respond... she probably doesn't care and you know that your game needs work.
 

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remember bro, YOU are the one in charge. you control the progression of the dating process or what i call "game." she will soon figure this out with you and she will wait for your call.
if the calls aint soon enough for her, she will call. if she is interested of course.
 
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