"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When to stop calling and let her make the effort??

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No Escape

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When you first start dating a chick and you're always the one calling to talk and making plans to hang out, at what point would you say it's time to stop and let her make the effort??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Demodulate

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I think its a give and take kinda thing... if you take her out and she doesnt call to say thanks or alteast call to say hello after the fact why call her again, shes obviously not that interested...
 
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I'd say that it depends how much you actually desire this woman. Sure thats running into one-itis etc.. but the fact may be that you haven't spent enough time with her to really dig you. And it does take time. Not all women are going to be all ON immediatly and some will take longer than others. As much as I hate to quantify stuff i'd say that if after around 7 hrs of being together she doesn't respond... she probably doesn't care and you know that your game needs work.
 
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remember bro, YOU are the one in charge. you control the progression of the dating process or what i call "game." she will soon figure this out with you and she will wait for your call.
if the calls aint soon enough for her, she will call. if she is interested of course.
 
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