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When to stop calling and let her make the effort??

No Escape

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When you first start dating a chick and you're always the one calling to talk and making plans to hang out, at what point would you say it's time to stop and let her make the effort??
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Demodulate

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I think its a give and take kinda thing... if you take her out and she doesnt call to say thanks or alteast call to say hello after the fact why call her again, shes obviously not that interested...
 

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I'd say that it depends how much you actually desire this woman. Sure thats running into one-itis etc.. but the fact may be that you haven't spent enough time with her to really dig you. And it does take time. Not all women are going to be all ON immediatly and some will take longer than others. As much as I hate to quantify stuff i'd say that if after around 7 hrs of being together she doesn't respond... she probably doesn't care and you know that your game needs work.
 

FratAndDiddy

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remember bro, YOU are the one in charge. you control the progression of the dating process or what i call "game." she will soon figure this out with you and she will wait for your call.
if the calls aint soon enough for her, she will call. if she is interested of course.
 
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