"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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when to follow-up date, make another?

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How long after a first date do you wait to call or email if you liked her and she said she had a good time? Do you setup a second date right then or make her wait?

I am thinking to just email a note tonight that I had a good time Sat. so she doesn't write me off -- but not setup another date now. We are both busy and I have a couple other dates lined up. Something like:

"Hey, Sat. was great, esp. enjoyed bla bla bla. I am super busy the next couple weeks but will definitely be back in touch. Good luck with ..."

Also, am I right that I should not add any questions in there requiring response? Since we have moved from online to real world I don't want to slide back into a virtual thing. You guys agree?
 

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okay, here's what I got back:

"I had a very nice time too. I would definitely be up for hanging out sometime. ... maybe [date] we could get together?"

Note the word "nice" (which I didn't use myself) as well as "hanging out" and "sometime" (didn't use those terms either).

Seems like low interest, right? I just got turned into one of her girlfriends?
 
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Sounds positive to me. The word *maybe* though is the kicker here.

Because you told her you were busy, then she threw that out there for you and with a specific date which is good.

She knows you're not asking her out as a friend, so this looks good.
 
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looks fine for the get to know you stage.

a) she replied quickly
b) she wanted to meet up again.


No time to get oneitis though :)
 
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