Yes exactly. This is so important. Really this is the basis of long term attraction. Seduction really just boils down to this + emotional connection + looks.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
When they say " i feel safe"
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Naw. Women who have dated weak losers who are beta say this. Women who have dated a liberal soft weak dudes appreciate stable traditional men. A lot of men let the woman plan dates, take charge etc. Thats a lot of burden on the female. Once they had a few of thoses guys they want the guy they can " feel safe" with. Thats all women really want. To feel safe. Safety/ security/ love.
No I was watching a Legion of Men youtube video and he featured this Tik Tok clip in it. It was a woman describing what they mean by feeling "safe". Its the feeling they get when they don't have to worry if they have enough money to cover half of the bill because you got it. Its the feeling they get when they know you can physically defend her in a dark park etc. Maybe no woman said that to you but other men have heard it.Seriously? You turn to TikTok for female psychology? Well, have fun.
Good one man. You got me.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
I asked my GF if she ever heard that term. She said she hasn’t. I’m sure it is used by some (many?). But. It is not universal.
Exactly. First it has to be established if she is attracted to the guy or not. If she’s attracted, anything she says goes.
