“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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When they say " i feel safe"

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This. The Jerk vs Nice Guy debate has always been a red herring. It’s a clever way to dance around the far more important looks issue.

Back on topic, “safe” means she can relax and let her guard down because she feels like “You got this.” Even as a guy, you might have that one friend or family member who seems like he can handle anything; it’s sort of like that.
Yes exactly. This is so important. Really this is the basis of long term attraction. Seduction really just boils down to this + emotional connection + looks.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Exactly. Only women who are concerned about boundaries being crossed think about men as 'safe/unsafe'.
Naw. Women who have dated weak losers who are beta say this. Women who have dated a liberal soft weak dudes appreciate stable traditional men. A lot of men let the woman plan dates, take charge etc. Thats a lot of burden on the female. Once they had a few of thoses guys they want the guy they can " feel safe" with. Thats all women really want. To feel safe. Safety/ security/ love.
 

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Seriously? You turn to TikTok for female psychology? Well, have fun. :rolleyes:
No I was watching a Legion of Men youtube video and he featured this Tik Tok clip in it. It was a woman describing what they mean by feeling "safe". Its the feeling they get when they don't have to worry if they have enough money to cover half of the bill because you got it. Its the feeling they get when they know you can physically defend her in a dark park etc. Maybe no woman said that to you but other men have heard it.
 

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I asked my GF if she ever heard that term. She said she hasn’t. I’m sure it is used by some (many?). But. It is not universal.
 

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In the lack of immediate physical danger, "safe" means comfortable, which is ok if you have sexual attraction established. If not, no bueno.
Exactly. First it has to be established if she is attracted to the guy or not. If she’s attracted, anything she says goes.
 
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