Yes exactly. This is so important. Really this is the basis of long term attraction. Seduction really just boils down to this + emotional connection + looks.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When they say " i feel safe"
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
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Naw. Women who have dated weak losers who are beta say this. Women who have dated a liberal soft weak dudes appreciate stable traditional men. A lot of men let the woman plan dates, take charge etc. Thats a lot of burden on the female. Once they had a few of thoses guys they want the guy they can " feel safe" with. Thats all women really want. To feel safe. Safety/ security/ love.
No I was watching a Legion of Men youtube video and he featured this Tik Tok clip in it. It was a woman describing what they mean by feeling "safe". Its the feeling they get when they don't have to worry if they have enough money to cover half of the bill because you got it. Its the feeling they get when they know you can physically defend her in a dark park etc. Maybe no woman said that to you but other men have heard it.Seriously? You turn to TikTok for female psychology? Well, have fun.
Good one man. You got me.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
I asked my GF if she ever heard that term. She said she hasn’t. I’m sure it is used by some (many?). But. It is not universal.
Exactly. First it has to be established if she is attracted to the guy or not. If she’s attracted, anything she says goes.
