"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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when they like you its easy

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yes I used to agree with that but... if you pay attention, you will see 'betas' with cute girlfriends everywhere. You will see couples in which the guy acts 'beta', calls her a lot, buys her stuff etc, and the girl is with him happily.

If've come to conclude that acting 'too alpha' is counterproductive the majority of the time. I mean, calling almos never, texting very little, seeming busy, and letting her know you have other options, will actually make runa away many women, because it tells them you care so little that she prefers to be with a guy that really wants to be with her and shows it.
This seems to contradict most of what is advocated on SS.

If you could get hot girls just by playing beta buck game this site wouldn't exist.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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