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bobbob

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saturday and make a date for sunday, or sunday and make a date for tuesday
 

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Originally posted by bobbob
saturday and make a date for sunday, or sunday and make a date for tuesday
the answer is, when ever the hell you want, aslong as you do nto call same day, the wait 3 days is really not neccisery, waiting to long is bad, next day is fine
 

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You're getting answers from teens. In high school, it's all okay and stuff because people don't have much of a life.

If I got a number on thursday, I'd call Sunday and setup a date for Tues/Wed.

I never call on Fri/Sat with someone unless the persons I am calling that same day I am planning to hang out with or an emergency/thanks for the sex call.
 

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Nevermind, the answer was in the dj bible ... sunday it is!

wish me luck, last 30+ numbers have resulted in no date whatsoever
 

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Originally posted by bobbob
Nevermind, the answer was in the dj bible ... sunday it is!

wish me luck, last 30+ numbers have resulted in no date whatsoever
Maybe you're waiting too long to ask them out or asking them out for dates on days which they already have plans.
 

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it all depends on how you got the number..?

for instance if you talked to her for 10 min..wait a couple days...

if you talked to her for 3 hours...then call her the next day or maybe wait 1.

I dont agree with waiting 3 days.

unless your the president of the United States you can make 5 min to set up a date.

I get that it makes u seem busy but if you are confident you dont need to ****ing pretend. There is no way your ass is that busy if you are on here asking when to call ?

see ya!

good luck
 

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I don't agree with this number of days rule at all. You don't need a rule book to figure this stuff out.

If I got a number Thursday I would call whenever I wanted to bring someone along with me to something I'm doing. I always like to give a day or 2 notice unless its something really exciting that just came up and wanted to bring her along.

This whole call 3 days later to do a dinner and a movie is just the wrong way to think about it.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_Dork
You're getting answers from teens. In high school, it's all okay and stuff because people don't have much of a life.

If I got a number on thursday, I'd call Sunday and setup a date for Tues/Wed.

I never call on Fri/Sat with someone unless the persons I am calling that same day I am planning to hang out with or an emergency/thanks for the sex call.
so it seems like the only diffrence between us 'highschool kids' and you is that we can think for ourselves, you think you are so clever because you know you have to wait 3 days, you know it because you saw it on the dj bible!! you never thought maybe some of the stuff is not completly correct there, you take it word for word with out thinking on your own.

we are saying 1 day becayse we know the 3 day rule is BS sure theres no harm in waiting a few days but its all fine aslong as its same day, and a lot of others think the same

a lot can happen in 3days including her getitng upset that you dont call, she then is mad at you for not calling and convinces hersalf she does not like you, intrest level drops to 0 and now its...good luck trying to set up a date.
 

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Just call a couple days later. There's no trigonomic equation for calling girls. If she gave you her number, then she wants to hear from you. Just don't call an hour after you get the number.
 

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She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

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THanks GOD..I hope we can dismiss this 3 day rule ****.

I met a girl Friday night..we had a 3 hour convo..made out and all that.

for one lets review...I could be getting ****ed over..its possible..but I know I have better judegement..

I live In St. Louis..as you know we have a team in the WS. I gave the girl I met..this wrist band..that is red that says go cards..its like the Lance Armstrong band.

We lost the game last night..so I called her and blammed the loss on her. I said Im gonna need that back now. she said "that can definitely be arranged"

she was a hb7-7.5 with a great personality..we are both 22.

I dont think I need to wait to ****ing tuesday to call her to show im busy.

come on...she knows im gonna watch the game...she know after the loss..im not going to be so busy I cant call her for 5 min.


as for anything in this world....my biggest belief is CONFIDENCE.

for the love of god...JUST BE SURE AND BELIEVE IN YOUR SELF. AND NO ONE CAN DOUBT YOU...NO ONE WILL SEE THREW YOU IF YOU BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.



see ya!
 

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As long as you don't come off as desperate it doesn't really matter when you call.
 

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Hell, you can even call the same night, try and pull a booty call and have her hang out for drinks and "movies" at your place.
 

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awesome post on bridging by the way JT (wish I had read it before meeting this girl).

anyways, i only talked to her for like 10 minutes, i don't think she'd be up for a booty call without some work ... i called today but got no answer
 
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