DJ1234
Senior Don Juan
What is a way (C+F way) to respond to a girl if she has her b*tch shield up and as you are trying to talk to her she says that you arent her type...
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
love this lineshe says that you arent her type...
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
1) Just because I'm ****y, witty, handsome, and hung like a horse, you shouldn't feel so threatened that you have to fake disinterest.DJ1234 said:What is a way (C+F way) to respond to a girl if she has her b*tch shield up and as you are trying to talk to her she says that you arent her type...
Her: Your not my type.DJ1234 said:What is a way (C+F way) to respond to a girl if she has her b*tch shield up and as you are trying to talk to her she says that you arent her type...
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!Stormwatch13 said:Once i was at this coffee shop and i said "hello" very politley to a woman. She looked up from her magazine, tilted her sunglasses and said "you arent my type" Literally 2 seconds after she said that i popped the lid off of my coffee and hurled it into her face. She shrieked in pain and i ran out of the place. i cant go there anymore.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Poonani Maker said:When she says this, it's what she "prefers," not what she's attracted to. If you know how to create attraction inside the mind and body of a woman then how good you look becomes irrelevant. Use tension loops and push/pull in whatever you do or say around her. It's evil but you'll begin to learn the rhythms of women, the drum they beat to is totally different than ours.
this one is really really good..I know I"m not your type, but don't you think it's time you raised your standards?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Actually, he's right. You're the one who doesn't get it. Any woman can give you specifics as to her "type", yet they all have been involved with men who didn't meet all her specifications. They all dated guys who weren't "their type" yet somehow ended up being attracted to them later on.Dark Haired Alpha said::crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
You still don't get it.
Sorry for bumping this thread so long after the last post, but I wasn't around lately. Well I rather meant he doesn't get what it means when a girl says you're not her typeGangster Of Love said:Actually, he's right. You're the one who doesn't get it. Any woman can give you specifics as to her "type", yet they all have been involved with men who didn't meet all her specifications. They all dated guys who weren't "their type" yet somehow ended up being attracted to them later on.
Now the real issue is if it is worth it to go through her shield and work on somebody who obviously is being a bit bitshy, just to create a neutral situation to start working on attraction. Seems like too much work already. I agree with the poster who said it is better to create attraction and work on yourself so you don't run into the "you're not my type" kind of situations.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.