DJ1234
Senior Don Juan
What is a way (C+F way) to respond to a girl if she has her b*tch shield up and as you are trying to talk to her she says that you arent her type...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
love this lineshe says that you arent her type...
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
1) Just because I'm ****y, witty, handsome, and hung like a horse, you shouldn't feel so threatened that you have to fake disinterest.DJ1234 said:What is a way (C+F way) to respond to a girl if she has her b*tch shield up and as you are trying to talk to her she says that you arent her type...
Her: Your not my type.DJ1234 said:What is a way (C+F way) to respond to a girl if she has her b*tch shield up and as you are trying to talk to her she says that you arent her type...
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!Stormwatch13 said:Once i was at this coffee shop and i said "hello" very politley to a woman. She looked up from her magazine, tilted her sunglasses and said "you arent my type" Literally 2 seconds after she said that i popped the lid off of my coffee and hurled it into her face. She shrieked in pain and i ran out of the place. i cant go there anymore.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Poonani Maker said:When she says this, it's what she "prefers," not what she's attracted to. If you know how to create attraction inside the mind and body of a woman then how good you look becomes irrelevant. Use tension loops and push/pull in whatever you do or say around her. It's evil but you'll begin to learn the rhythms of women, the drum they beat to is totally different than ours.
this one is really really good..I know I"m not your type, but don't you think it's time you raised your standards?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Actually, he's right. You're the one who doesn't get it. Any woman can give you specifics as to her "type", yet they all have been involved with men who didn't meet all her specifications. They all dated guys who weren't "their type" yet somehow ended up being attracted to them later on.Dark Haired Alpha said::crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
You still don't get it.
Sorry for bumping this thread so long after the last post, but I wasn't around lately. Well I rather meant he doesn't get what it means when a girl says you're not her typeGangster Of Love said:Actually, he's right. You're the one who doesn't get it. Any woman can give you specifics as to her "type", yet they all have been involved with men who didn't meet all her specifications. They all dated guys who weren't "their type" yet somehow ended up being attracted to them later on.
Now the real issue is if it is worth it to go through her shield and work on somebody who obviously is being a bit bitshy, just to create a neutral situation to start working on attraction. Seems like too much work already. I agree with the poster who said it is better to create attraction and work on yourself so you don't run into the "you're not my type" kind of situations.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.