"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When she says your not her.....

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Yeah, I suppose you're right. We both want to be the more attractive one in the relationship."

oh that's not funny is it? i give up
 

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she says that you arent her type...
love this line

honestly there is not much you can do since she has her "b*tch shield up" it means she has made up her mind, your going to have to "WORK" in order for her to give you a chance or better yet put down her "shield"..

you could respond with:
"I'm everyones type"= this could either make her smile, or she will give you a dirty look or a smart as comment

"why not try something different"

I mean why not flat out ask her what her type is or why you don't meet her criterias..
 

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When she says this, it's what she "prefers," not what she's attracted to. If you know how to create attraction inside the mind and body of a woman then how good you look becomes irrelevant. Use tension loops and push/pull in whatever you do or say around her. It's evil but you'll begin to learn the rhythms of women, the drum they beat to is totally different than ours.
 

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I haven't been hit with this but I hear it all the time from women saying "he's not my type" so I just want to be ready if I ever run into a girl that says this....but I like "I'm everyones type" kinda like in a *sarcastic tone*
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My only experience with this line...

When I first met my current girlfriend she said something like, "you are good looking, but you're not really my type..". At the time, she'd had a bit to drink, and now she denies any memory of ever saying it. After we'd met, she chased me for a few weeks, so I take it that she said I'm not her type because she knew I was and she was attracted to me... (people are shy in front of those they are attracted to and don't wanna give too much away)

-shaun
 

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DJ1234 said:
What is a way (C+F way) to respond to a girl if she has her b*tch shield up and as you are trying to talk to her she says that you arent her type...
1) Just because I'm ****y, witty, handsome, and hung like a horse, you shouldn't feel so threatened that you have to fake disinterest.

2) I know, I'm just trying to avoid all the other women in here that are crazy about me.

3) So what are you saying, you want me to gain 50 lbs., shop at the salvation army, and get a brain transplant with a monkey?

4) You're so right, I'm your mother's worst nightmare, you better run before it's too late.

5) I know I"m not your type, but don't you think it's time you raised your standards?
 

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DJ1234 said:
What is a way (C+F way) to respond to a girl if she has her b*tch shield up and as you are trying to talk to her she says that you arent her type...
Her: Your not my type.

You: Oh Okay..

You: ::whip out your Cvck::......... Am i your type now?

Her: Ohh... Yeah now you are.


Really, I hate when girls come up with stupid lines like this.
 

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Stormwatch13 said:
Once i was at this coffee shop and i said "hello" very politley to a woman. She looked up from her magazine, tilted her sunglasses and said "you arent my type" Literally 2 seconds after she said that i popped the lid off of my coffee and hurled it into her face. She shrieked in pain and i ran out of the place. i cant go there anymore.
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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AAAAAAAHAHAHAHA!



Anyway back on topic I would say "of course I'm not your type...I'm one of a kind".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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REPONSES-what makes you think your MY TYPE Sweety

What you cant handle a challenging guy, with 6 pack abs, thats like the energizer bunny

Whats your type----rich, nice boy doctor, engineer, lawyer, who has to buy your affection.......dont they usually have small ****s.

It's always all about you huh

Come on live a little, deviate from the norm, date outside your box, God forbid you date someone differnt for a change.

Hey I can be nice,boring and predictable......here let me start, why dont you take my wallet and pick out something you like, then I will compliment you for a few minutes, and hang on every word and never ever disagree with you.

What type is that the wuss type, cave man type, the big hairy type

take a break from your boring type lady, tomarrow you can go back to boredom town and return to YOUR TYPE, tonight we are livin la vida loca

Oh so you dont like guys with attitude, a challenge you want a wimpy nancys boy you can train, sorry sister that aint me.

what am I a car and object......type PFFT........type this missy........lean in to kiss her...then pull away and yell out loud.......OK EVERYONE MISS HIGH MAINTENANCE HAS A TYPE.........ask her what that type is and then poke fun of it.
 

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"That's because all you've had is bologna, time to try some filet mignon."

There are a lot of ways to respond, I say be creative with this one. Because as has been stated, her b!tch shield is up, the right line/delivery can take it down part way. 2 intense made a good suggestion, just call her on it. One that would send her for a spin I bet would to say 'I'm sure every guy you've been with has been your type, right?'
 

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'and you're certainly not mine, but I like to give something different a chance now and then'
then continue with what you were talking about as if she never spoke. this has worked for me
 
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Poonani Maker said:
When she says this, it's what she "prefers," not what she's attracted to. If you know how to create attraction inside the mind and body of a woman then how good you look becomes irrelevant. Use tension loops and push/pull in whatever you do or say around her. It's evil but you'll begin to learn the rhythms of women, the drum they beat to is totally different than ours.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

You still don't get it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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tell her you wanna do something for her and then don't do it (buy her a drink, give her soem money just for talking to you, anything weird like that.)... get her to say yes to something... give her some anticipation and then drop the anvil on her... walk off...


for example, if you're at a club/bar: say 'ok, i'm going to buy you a drink anyway'... and then don't...

it's much harder in a club/bar setting to convince a girl she's your type and it's not worth the trouble...
 

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These two are my fav...

'and you're certainly not mine, but I like to give something different a chance now and then'
I know I"m not your type, but don't you think it's time you raised your standards?

If I ever get hit with this I will probably use a combination of these two..Something like this....
'and you're certainly not mine, but I like to give something different a chance now and then' but don't you think it's time you raised your standards? :D
 

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First Post! :)

Anyway try "You're not my type either but todays is Be Nice to B*tches Day."

You have to say this with a very sweet smile though. :)

Or a variation on the above posts "You're not my type either but I'm lowering my standards for you."
 

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Dark Haired Alpha said:
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

You still don't get it.
Actually, he's right. You're the one who doesn't get it. Any woman can give you specifics as to her "type", yet they all have been involved with men who didn't meet all her specifications. They all dated guys who weren't "their type" yet somehow ended up being attracted to them later on.

Now the real issue is if it is worth it to go through her shield and work on somebody who obviously is being a bit bitshy, just to create a neutral situation to start working on attraction. Seems like too much work already. I agree with the poster who said it is better to create attraction and work on yourself so you don't run into the "you're not my type" kind of situations.
 
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Gangster Of Love said:
Actually, he's right. You're the one who doesn't get it. Any woman can give you specifics as to her "type", yet they all have been involved with men who didn't meet all her specifications. They all dated guys who weren't "their type" yet somehow ended up being attracted to them later on.

Now the real issue is if it is worth it to go through her shield and work on somebody who obviously is being a bit bitshy, just to create a neutral situation to start working on attraction. Seems like too much work already. I agree with the poster who said it is better to create attraction and work on yourself so you don't run into the "you're not my type" kind of situations.
Sorry for bumping this thread so long after the last post, but I wasn't around lately. Well I rather meant he doesn't get what it means when a girl says you're not her type :rolleyes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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