DJ1234
Senior Don Juan
What is a way (C+F way) to respond to a girl if she has her b*tch shield up and as you are trying to talk to her she says that you arent her type...
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
love this lineshe says that you arent her type...
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
1) Just because I'm ****y, witty, handsome, and hung like a horse, you shouldn't feel so threatened that you have to fake disinterest.DJ1234 said:What is a way (C+F way) to respond to a girl if she has her b*tch shield up and as you are trying to talk to her she says that you arent her type...
Her: Your not my type.DJ1234 said:What is a way (C+F way) to respond to a girl if she has her b*tch shield up and as you are trying to talk to her she says that you arent her type...
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!Stormwatch13 said:Once i was at this coffee shop and i said "hello" very politley to a woman. She looked up from her magazine, tilted her sunglasses and said "you arent my type" Literally 2 seconds after she said that i popped the lid off of my coffee and hurled it into her face. She shrieked in pain and i ran out of the place. i cant go there anymore.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Poonani Maker said:When she says this, it's what she "prefers," not what she's attracted to. If you know how to create attraction inside the mind and body of a woman then how good you look becomes irrelevant. Use tension loops and push/pull in whatever you do or say around her. It's evil but you'll begin to learn the rhythms of women, the drum they beat to is totally different than ours.
this one is really really good..I know I"m not your type, but don't you think it's time you raised your standards?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Actually, he's right. You're the one who doesn't get it. Any woman can give you specifics as to her "type", yet they all have been involved with men who didn't meet all her specifications. They all dated guys who weren't "their type" yet somehow ended up being attracted to them later on.Dark Haired Alpha said::crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
You still don't get it.
Sorry for bumping this thread so long after the last post, but I wasn't around lately. Well I rather meant he doesn't get what it means when a girl says you're not her typeGangster Of Love said:Actually, he's right. You're the one who doesn't get it. Any woman can give you specifics as to her "type", yet they all have been involved with men who didn't meet all her specifications. They all dated guys who weren't "their type" yet somehow ended up being attracted to them later on.
Now the real issue is if it is worth it to go through her shield and work on somebody who obviously is being a bit bitshy, just to create a neutral situation to start working on attraction. Seems like too much work already. I agree with the poster who said it is better to create attraction and work on yourself so you don't run into the "you're not my type" kind of situations.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.