When She is Bad at Messaging - OLD

[jaymbrs]

We've all dealt with it. I'm dealing with it now. Women who are terrible at messaging. Lame, boring, don't ask questions. Don't tell me they're not interested. There's way too many who are like this. Traditionally I just stop responding and/or unmatch them because I think they're lame. But it happens a lot and I'm thinking that's a lot of ass I'm potentially missing out on.

A lot of you guys will say to set up the date within 1-2 messages but I like to screen my women to avoid wasting my time on a pointless date.

Do you guys do anything different?

 

[Gamisch]

Welcome to 2023. Women are extremely superficial and lack any form of game. Thank your fellow men for this. We spoiled women so bad that there no need to be charming.

I personally ask two questions max. If she doesnt ask anything back I just stop talking. I refuse to make it an interview, and it's the easiest way to screen for luke warm interest. I also refuse to unmatch though. Imo that's feminine energy.

Man: hey what's good
W; good
man ; blablabla
W. Yes
Silence
Man ; blablabla work blablabla your picture
Silence
W;( 2 days later) yes
Silence

This gentlemen, means you should move the F on.

 

[jaymbrs]

She's quick to respond but kinda lame already. I'm just going to leave it there.

 

[member160292]

I send paragraphs and just dismiss the ones that send one liners. Start off with high interest

@jaymbrs you could have opened up the conversation by asking about her school, what she’s studying, how she’s became interested in it, what profession shewants To get into, etc

 

[Doctor Europeo]

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She's quick to respond but kinda lame already. I'm just going to leave it there.

If she´s hot at least ask her out once before nexting

 

[Gamisch]

OMG, was this a real conversation? Lol

I'm kidding, course it was, but geez!

Next time, might I suggest immediately deleting after this?

Man: hey what's good
W: good

Lord have mercy, you guys aren't kidding around about this stuff!

Catz, believe me this conversation happens more often than not. Hence the OP, it's made out of frustration..

Thats why the common advice for men is to say anything but "hey". Say someting about her profile..make it personal. I cant find the article but one dude wrote he had 100+ matches, NEVER said "hey" but always used a witty opener, still zero dates..

Let me tell you, it gets old real quick when you try to be a clownish character looking for "unique openings". Mind you, the women basically never take effort to even make conversation, but still demand you " say something unique and witty".

I use OLD as an ego boost and nothing more. Every now and then there's a woman with high interest and she'll make it easy for me. The others.. is just a little ego boost and that's it.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Mind you, the women basically never take effort to even make conversation, but still demand you " say something unique and witty".

I always hated this. Im the prize b1tch, not your personal clown.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

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She's quick to respond but kinda lame already. I'm just going to leave it there.

The super-quick to respond is a common tactic of the female player. The obvious tell is when there's no value (from the guy's perspective) in the content of the quick responses.

 

[jaymbrs]

The super-quick to respond is a common tactic of the female player. The obvious tell is when there's no value (from the guy's perspective) in the content of the quick responses.

Interesting. What makes you think that? I’ve never heard of it.

 

[RazorRambo24]

When a girl is not texting you with anything interesting or unique, she doesn't care. Ever try responding to the 5th text you responded to in one sitting? Your texts get less and less interesting.. and u just end up being like "hey thats cool". or something short phrase.

They're entertaining you but not interested in you. Why? becausse there are guys they are more interested in. The sad part is soem girls will text a guy back and forth nad not even reall be interested in him. They're just killing time and then suddenly when her texts start getting less consistent until she just goes quiet, thats about the time she found someone she likes and decided to just brush u into the corner like some dirt on the floor

Thats why i start off, make it super fun and sexual and ge the girl excited as fucc.. when shes down to hang out, i already know shes sold. teh key is to jsut get them in bed and blow their minds, after that, u just reel back and watch as she chases u lol

 

[RazorRambo24]

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She's quick to respond but kinda lame already. I'm just going to leave it there.

"kinda lame already' thast because you're texting her friendly af. its not the girls job to lead. you're acting like someone who wants to be her friend dude. or like a gay bestie

wheres any sexual interest being portrayed in your texts?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

We've all dealt with it. I'm dealing with it now. Women who are terrible at messaging. Lame, boring, don't ask questions. Don't tell me they're not interested. There's way too many who are like this. Traditionally I just stop responding and/or unmatch them because I think they're lame. But it happens a lot and I'm thinking that's a lot of ass I'm potentially missing out on.

A lot of you guys will say to set up the date within 1-2 messages but I like to screen my women to avoid wasting my time on a pointless date.

Do you guys do anything different?

You think you are missing out on lame boring women? I think it sounds like a blessing. Imagine what she will be like in person.

 

[jaymbrs]

"kinda lame already' thast because you're texting her friendly af. its not the girls job to lead. you're acting like someone who wants to be her friend dude. or like a gay bestie

wheres any sexual interest being portrayed in your texts?

I suck at this. I'll admit it. I can't stand texting or messaging. My forte is in person.

BUT I do get dates by messaging the way I am. But if I'm the reason why some of these chicks don't message back anything interesting, I need to work on that.

You think you are missing out on lame boring women? I think it sounds like a blessing. Imagine what she will be like in person.

That's the way I see it too but I assume not all of them are being theirselves online and just playing the "Im the prize so I don't need to put in effort" BS.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Women are text monsters. they love texting and get pissy iv you're a 'dry ' texter.

 

[SW15]

I suck at this. I'll admit it. I can't stand texting or messaging. My forte is in person.

Focus on your in-person approaches instead of the swipe apps.

 

[jaymbrs]

Focus on your in-person approaches instead of the swipe apps.

I still approach. I was at the bar last night chatting up a few. But these apps are easy ***** man.

 

[jaymbrs]

Here’s another one. My next message is going to be something like “that’s good because now it’s less trouble to find a restaurant to take you to.” Unless that’s too gay bestie. Open to suggestions. You guys can take the wheel.

 

[SW15]

I still approach. I was at the bar last night chatting up a few. But these apps are easy ***** man.

That motorcycle probably helps you get some poontang too.

I don't perceive the apps as easy at all.

 

[RazorRambo24]

I suck at this. I'll admit it. I can't stand texting or messaging. My forte is in person.

BUT I do get dates by messaging the way I am. But if I'm the reason why some of these chicks don't message back anything interesting, I need to work on that.

Its no sweat man.. You are who you are and you shouldn't necessarily have to change that. Just be aware that your words and your style of texting is what gets you the results you receive. Women are all naturally freaks.. Some are open to letting that out quicker than others. For myself, I dont waste time because I'm mostly just looking for sex.. so I go right for the sexual flirtation and if she doesnt reciprocate, I dont waste my time...

There's no rule that you have to go and make things spicy right away.. Keep doing what you're doing if its working and then just get her out.. make sure you let her know by your actions during the date that you're interested in her sexually (unless ofc you're looking for something serious), and just after that the texting should take on a more flirty/sexual nature

Most of my encounters on Tinder just end up super flirtacious and real sexual real fast. I think you're finding girls who are more like easy going/want to be friends first which might be alright if thats what you're looking for as well

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Interesting. What makes you think that? I’ve never heard of it.

Experience. Women who don't initiate but who are quick to respond with nothing but fluff (heavily cliched answers with no sexual flirtation and no genuine interest in the guy's personal life) have all proven to be time wasters.