As a bit of continuation on my last thread about questions during sex. During the first intercourse with a lady you want to take on the condom and get to work as quickly as possible as for her not to ask questions "what/why are you doing?" . When is the right moment to put on a condom for it to be as seamless as possible? Do you do it when the panties are off, just before they are off or maybe right after you started the foreplay?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
When is the "right time" to put on the condom?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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In the middle of foreplay without rushing to move forward, actually I tell them to put it and make fun of them either for their lack of skill or suspicious pro skills.
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After a bit of foreplay, right before you're going to insert.
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Don’t think about it too much. Just put it on when she’s ready to take it.
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Bro if you are that concerned with getting it on so fast its obvious you are doing something wrong. Most of the time I have them put it on for me.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Dont worry about it, just go with the flow, trust me, your instincts will let you know
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Depends. Is this an LTR or a ONS? Do you plan to have your penis in her mouth? If so and no STD test was done, or a ONS, then you put the condom on prior inserting it into her mouth. If no oral, but there is vag or anal, right before insertion. Pretty common knowledge dude.