As a bit of continuation on my last thread about questions during sex. During the first intercourse with a lady you want to take on the condom and get to work as quickly as possible as for her not to ask questions "what/why are you doing?" . When is the right moment to put on a condom for it to be as seamless as possible? Do you do it when the panties are off, just before they are off or maybe right after you started the foreplay?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When is the "right time" to put on the condom?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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In the middle of foreplay without rushing to move forward, actually I tell them to put it and make fun of them either for their lack of skill or suspicious pro skills.
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After a bit of foreplay, right before you're going to insert.
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Don’t think about it too much. Just put it on when she’s ready to take it.
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Bro if you are that concerned with getting it on so fast its obvious you are doing something wrong. Most of the time I have them put it on for me.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Dont worry about it, just go with the flow, trust me, your instincts will let you know
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Depends. Is this an LTR or a ONS? Do you plan to have your penis in her mouth? If so and no STD test was done, or a ONS, then you put the condom on prior inserting it into her mouth. If no oral, but there is vag or anal, right before insertion. Pretty common knowledge dude.