As a bit of continuation on my last thread about questions during sex. During the first intercourse with a lady you want to take on the condom and get to work as quickly as possible as for her not to ask questions "what/why are you doing?" . When is the right moment to put on a condom for it to be as seamless as possible? Do you do it when the panties are off, just before they are off or maybe right after you started the foreplay?
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When is the "right time" to put on the condom?
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In the middle of foreplay without rushing to move forward, actually I tell them to put it and make fun of them either for their lack of skill or suspicious pro skills.
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After a bit of foreplay, right before you're going to insert.
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Don’t think about it too much. Just put it on when she’s ready to take it.
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Bro if you are that concerned with getting it on so fast its obvious you are doing something wrong. Most of the time I have them put it on for me.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Dont worry about it, just go with the flow, trust me, your instincts will let you know
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Depends. Is this an LTR or a ONS? Do you plan to have your penis in her mouth? If so and no STD test was done, or a ONS, then you put the condom on prior inserting it into her mouth. If no oral, but there is vag or anal, right before insertion. Pretty common knowledge dude.