After reading the DJ bible and about game, it feels like I have to fvck a lot of girls first before being able to commit to a LTR. But when have you been truly ready for a serious relationship without being tempted by other women? Do I literally have to fvck everything that moves???
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When is a man ready for a serious relationship?
- Thread starter AlphaNoob
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Any men that are not promiscuous and can take responsibility for what are involved with a commitment are ready for a serious relationship; which means, some men are ready from the get-go, while some will never be ready.
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Konada
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No. A man is ready for an LTR when he finds himself screening out women who don't match up to his standards of what a feminine woman should be, no matter how hot they are.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
you are ready for an LTR when you want one. you're not ready when you don't
most men don't want one til they catch feelings for a girl
most men don't want one til they catch feelings for a girl
blind_one
Master Don Juan
You will be ready when you do not need one.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
After you get tested for STDs.
Chev.Chelios
Master Don Juan
What @blind_one said is all you need to know 
A man takes in a loyal helper to aid his life, make food, clean his castle and to caress his manly manliness..
A man takes in a loyal helper to aid his life, make food, clean his castle and to caress his manly manliness..
Sounds like the job descriptions of a maid. Hire one!
hockeyfreak79
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Deep thoughts by Jack Handy.....
Well IME I've only lived with 2 women in my 38yrs of life. The 1st one was when I was really young, early 20's. Looking back it wasn't all that serious. She moved in pretty quick, maybe after 3mo? Since then many yrs later I've had a few woman ask about cohabiting but my gut also screamed......NO.
I don't think it hits a level of "seriousness" until they actually move in but again that's just my opinion and how I handle things. I dated my ex wf a good 1.5yrs before we found a place together. During that time she had her own place, was successful and self-sefficient.
Now @ 38 it's been quite the ride but I really don't see things changing all that much. Yeah I'll date and bang but actually be serious? Ha, that's an adorable thought. I'm perfectly content own my own for now. We'll see what the future brings me.
Well IME I've only lived with 2 women in my 38yrs of life. The 1st one was when I was really young, early 20's. Looking back it wasn't all that serious. She moved in pretty quick, maybe after 3mo? Since then many yrs later I've had a few woman ask about cohabiting but my gut also screamed......NO.
I don't think it hits a level of "seriousness" until they actually move in but again that's just my opinion and how I handle things. I dated my ex wf a good 1.5yrs before we found a place together. During that time she had her own place, was successful and self-sefficient.
Now @ 38 it's been quite the ride but I really don't see things changing all that much. Yeah I'll date and bang but actually be serious? Ha, that's an adorable thought. I'm perfectly content own my own for now. We'll see what the future brings me.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
if my maid would let me smash I wouldn't need a wifeSounds like the job descriptions of a maid. Hire one!