After reading the DJ bible and about game, it feels like I have to fvck a lot of girls first before being able to commit to a LTR. But when have you been truly ready for a serious relationship without being tempted by other women? Do I literally have to fvck everything that moves???
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
When is a man ready for a serious relationship?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Any men that are not promiscuous and can take responsibility for what are involved with a commitment are ready for a serious relationship; which means, some men are ready from the get-go, while some will never be ready.
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Konada
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No. A man is ready for an LTR when he finds himself screening out women who don't match up to his standards of what a feminine woman should be, no matter how hot they are.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
you are ready for an LTR when you want one. you're not ready when you don't
most men don't want one til they catch feelings for a girl
most men don't want one til they catch feelings for a girl
blind_one
Master Don Juan
You will be ready when you do not need one.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
After you get tested for STDs.
Chev.Chelios
Master Don Juan
What @blind_one said is all you need to know 
A man takes in a loyal helper to aid his life, make food, clean his castle and to caress his manly manliness..
A man takes in a loyal helper to aid his life, make food, clean his castle and to caress his manly manliness..
Sounds like the job descriptions of a maid. Hire one!
hockeyfreak79
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Deep thoughts by Jack Handy.....
Well IME I've only lived with 2 women in my 38yrs of life. The 1st one was when I was really young, early 20's. Looking back it wasn't all that serious. She moved in pretty quick, maybe after 3mo? Since then many yrs later I've had a few woman ask about cohabiting but my gut also screamed......NO.
I don't think it hits a level of "seriousness" until they actually move in but again that's just my opinion and how I handle things. I dated my ex wf a good 1.5yrs before we found a place together. During that time she had her own place, was successful and self-sefficient.
Now @ 38 it's been quite the ride but I really don't see things changing all that much. Yeah I'll date and bang but actually be serious? Ha, that's an adorable thought. I'm perfectly content own my own for now. We'll see what the future brings me.
Well IME I've only lived with 2 women in my 38yrs of life. The 1st one was when I was really young, early 20's. Looking back it wasn't all that serious. She moved in pretty quick, maybe after 3mo? Since then many yrs later I've had a few woman ask about cohabiting but my gut also screamed......NO.
I don't think it hits a level of "seriousness" until they actually move in but again that's just my opinion and how I handle things. I dated my ex wf a good 1.5yrs before we found a place together. During that time she had her own place, was successful and self-sefficient.
Now @ 38 it's been quite the ride but I really don't see things changing all that much. Yeah I'll date and bang but actually be serious? Ha, that's an adorable thought. I'm perfectly content own my own for now. We'll see what the future brings me.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
if my maid would let me smash I wouldn't need a wifeSounds like the job descriptions of a maid. Hire one!