"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When I was afc, the world seemded afc but now...

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Ok when I was afc the whole world seemed afc to me. By whole world I mean when I see random guys on subway I thought they might be afc too. But now that I am changing and turning into DJ, I think the whole world is DJ. If I see a guy I think "oh he must be a DJ" though I know that it is stupid coz I have no effing clue what he does in his life. He might look like Brad Pitt but he might be the biggest afc in the world. But this problem is with only random men. When I see my mates I know they are afcs. When I see guys around college, I know they are afcs.

Has this happened to anybody else? What % of the population is afc or DJ? Am I wondering too much about this stuff?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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me trate ors rif?
 

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djtdot said:
Ok when I was afc the whole world seemed afc to me.
Oh really?

djtdot said:
By whole world I mean when I see random guys on subway I thought they might be afc too.
Wow.

djtdot said:
But now that I am changing and turning into DJ, I think the whole world is DJ. If I see a guy I think "oh he must be a DJ" though I know that it is stupid coz I have no effing clue what he does in his life. He might look like Brad Pitt but he might be the biggest afc in the world.
Damn.

djtdot said:
But this problem is with only random men. When I see my mates I know they are afcs. When I see guys around college, I know they are afcs.
Okay.

djtdot said:
Has this happened to anybody else?
No.

djtdot said:
What % of the population is afc or DJ?
51.61112%

djtdot said:
Am I wondering too much about this stuff?
Yeah just a little.
 
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