"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When I was afc, the world seemded afc but now...

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Ok when I was afc the whole world seemed afc to me. By whole world I mean when I see random guys on subway I thought they might be afc too. But now that I am changing and turning into DJ, I think the whole world is DJ. If I see a guy I think "oh he must be a DJ" though I know that it is stupid coz I have no effing clue what he does in his life. He might look like Brad Pitt but he might be the biggest afc in the world. But this problem is with only random men. When I see my mates I know they are afcs. When I see guys around college, I know they are afcs.

Has this happened to anybody else? What % of the population is afc or DJ? Am I wondering too much about this stuff?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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me trate ors rif?
 

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djtdot said:
Ok when I was afc the whole world seemed afc to me.
Oh really?

djtdot said:
By whole world I mean when I see random guys on subway I thought they might be afc too.
Wow.

djtdot said:
But now that I am changing and turning into DJ, I think the whole world is DJ. If I see a guy I think "oh he must be a DJ" though I know that it is stupid coz I have no effing clue what he does in his life. He might look like Brad Pitt but he might be the biggest afc in the world.
Damn.

djtdot said:
But this problem is with only random men. When I see my mates I know they are afcs. When I see guys around college, I know they are afcs.
Okay.

djtdot said:
Has this happened to anybody else?
No.

djtdot said:
What % of the population is afc or DJ?
51.61112%

djtdot said:
Am I wondering too much about this stuff?
Yeah just a little.
 
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